How to Date After Divorce with Children - The Center for Family Unity

Dating can be a roller coaster of highs and lows—especially for the divorced parent. Here are five tips to keep in mind while dating after divorce with children:

Acknowledge that your children are likely hoping you will re-unite with your ex-spouse. Clarify the truth for them.
Let your children know you intend to date.
Wait several months, until your relationship is serious, to meet each other’s children.
Tell your ex you’re dating before you tell your kids. The children should not feel pressure to keep secrets for you.
Ask your children if they would like to meet your date and accept the fact they may not be ready. If they are, give them the opportunity to be involved in planning the first meeting.

For help navigating the complex experience of dating after divorce with children, we invite you to make an appointment at The Center for Family Unity. Contact us at 619-884-0601 or visit us online today.