Bonding with stepchildren isn’t always easy. Often, it takes more time than parents wish it did. Instead of trying to rush the process of becoming close, counselors at The Center For Family Unity encourage you to:
- Enjoy your alone time, knowing no one expects you to do everything
- Continue to engage in the meaningful activities you did with your biological children prior to your marriage.
- Allow opportunities for each child to express their uniqueness, instead of deciding one activity fits all.
- Take note when the children show shared interest in something spontaneously without your prompting. And do it again.
The process of bonding with stepchildren can be confusing and discouraging—especially when well-meaning intentions backfire. To learn how you can foster closeness in your blended family, contact The Center For Family Unity at 619-884-0601 or visit us at TheCenterForFamilyUnity.com.
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